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Be Brave and Face Your Fear

Facing your fear is hard. But I think what’s harder is making brave choices that are in your best interest even though you are afraid. I remember telling my son when he was in college debating a change in his major “don’t make choices out of fear.” I learned that lesson the hard way. He…

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Taking a Step Back to See the Big Picture

Sometimes when we are too close to a situation we have to take a step back so we can really see the big picture. This past week I took a much-needed extended trip to visit my son in Los Angeles and my writing and travel friend Angela Ruth Strong in Boise. It was long overdue…

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When Things Don’t Fit in Your Life

I’m spending the night with my couch… not on my couch. We have a lot of history together. I was so proud when I bought it to furnish my Airbnb apartment in 2016. That whole Airbnb part of my life was a testimony to the fact that I could do things that really scared me…

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I’m So Happy I Can’t Fit into my College Jeans

Darn! I can’t fit into my clothes from college! They’re TOO Big! In college, I used to wear big, bulky clothes. I was ashamed of my body. Thought I was fat, unattractive. If only I hadn’t been sucked into the destructive poor self image and dieting cycle my entire life, I might have learned to…

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Digging Deep without Burying Yourself

This meme popped up on my Facebook news feed and I immediately related. I’ve been running ragged for 6 – 8 months dealing with my mom’s onset dementia, moving her to independent living, DIY fixing up her house, packing, and moving boxes for the last 6 weeks. There’s still so much more to do. I’m…

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Teachers: You got this!

This time two years ago, I was incredibly stressed with setting up two homeschool classrooms and getting my curriculum together. Most of the time it’s a thankless join where you spend so much time after school preparing and saying NO to social events because things have to get done. At times, teaching can feel like…

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The Cure for Lack of Connection

God showed up again in a small, but powerful way last night! I was exhausted, but craving connection and wasn’t up for a big crowd event for several reasons. I probably should’ve stayed home and gone to bed early for some much-needed rest. But I’ve been thinking a lot about what I “should” do and…

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Restless

Last night I couldn’t sleep. I was restless on so many different levels. That’s not like me because I’ve learned how to quiet my soul. There was a time I was very discontent with my life circumstances, but I’ve learned to find peace and joy in the now. And quite honestly, I’ve created a pretty…

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Wait and Allow God to Bless You!

Today someone woke me up early with a knock on the door and an ANSWER to a silent “wish.” Yesterday, I tried to get my bike out of this shed, but it was completely blocked by tree limbs. I forced my way inside, but didn’t want to wrestle the bike out, so I thought about…

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7 Years: The Secret to an Extraordinary Life

7 years ago I did a difficult and scary thing for my mental and emotional health. I got out of a toxic marriage. I immediately started the healing process way before the ink on the divorce papers were final. That took about 3 years. Three years of starting over financially, emotionally, spiritually. I was so…

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